I use K&H Redheads. They don’t compress very much but don’t do anything when you catch them with your chain, and let’s face it, we all nick wedges with chains. They also stack pretty well, even two triple taple wedges will stack flat sides together and you can drive them. Hard Heads have a habit of popping out when I try to stack them and drive on the heads.
I use 10” triple tape wedges more than anything else. They seem to lift a lot, especially at the second bevel, and you can still double them. I don’t have many short wedges (<8”) and 12” wedges are usually just single bevel and don’t get much lift in smaller wood, which is what I’m usually into. Above 24” wood the bigger wedges really shine because you can get a lot of lift out of them by stacking them without getting into your bar.
I drive my wedges with a 5 lb Sager head on a 30” handle. I also have a 6 lb Council Tool axe on a 36” handle, but the longer handle can be unwieldy at times. I don’t like driving wedges with a maul or sledge hammer, the pole is too short and you end up denting a softer wedge’s end or cracking a Hard Head.