Tammy, her sister and BIL got the rest of her clothes and girl stuff from the house today. They had a deputy meet them there and there weren't any problems.
Tammy and Greg talked last night and she told him she had filed for divorce. Apparently he pointed out all of her flaws and let her know that he could do better. She was pretty hurt but has a strong support structure around her and sees this Ahole for what he is.
They have a contractor fixing the damage from the tantrum and then they're going to sell the house and property.
Although things are quiet, I've told my wife.......... head on a swivel.