Sad thread to read through Randy.
Some people think, the day of one’s death, is better than the day of one’s birth.
Meaning you can look back and reflect on all the good things that they have done, during their life's, the name they made for themselves, positive things that they have accomplished.
Where as on the day your born you have no established reputation, the slate is totally blank. They have not made a name for themselves yet, positive or a negative.
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My mom was diagnosed with cancer in her lymph nodes over a year ago. She is not going through chemo after watching chemo, eat up her older brother & younger sister, she is fighting it with new age medicine, and she is doing better then expected. I make time to talk with her a several times a week.
My thoughts are with you Randy!!