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My son has been going through a divorce for over 2 years. Her third lawyer just filed papers to be removed from case. He has 80% custody of 4 young boys, one for sure is not his. Gave him our last name and said if I don't raise him, he has no chance. Story is too long for a forum.
 

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My son has been going through a divorce for over 2 years. Her third lawyer just filed papers to be removed from case. He has 80% custody of 4 young boys, one for sure is not his. Gave him our last name and said if I don't raise him, he has no chance. Story is too long for a forum.
That sounds like a rough drawn out mess….Hoping for the best.
 

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Mom and dad are coming over later so I'll have them help
Good on ya for standing up and doin whut needs to be done !!
Please let us know how we can help ya out here Will, the succubus's of this world need a good "come to Jesus meeting" more often !!!
 

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Monday her stuff is going to start leaving. Making her sleep in the guest room till she finds a place to go. Gotta say it's hard to love someone who doesn't do anything all day. When she did do stuff she did it well. But most of the time I felt like I was taking care of a child.

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Monday her stuff is going to start leaving. Making her sleep in the guest room till she finds a place to go. Gotta say it's hard to love someone who doesn't do anything all day. When she did do stuff she did it well. But most of the time I felt like I was taking care of a child.

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Don’t let her ‘lack of places to go’ bullshitt that I’m sure is coming with both barrels, change anything…give her a date to be gone in the real, real soon future and stick to it. You’ve got a helluva lot more patience than I…she’d a hit the road many moons ago had I been in your shoes.
 

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Monday her stuff is going to start leaving. Making her sleep in the guest room till she finds a place to go. Gotta say it's hard to love someone who doesn't do anything all day. When she did do stuff she did it well. But most of the time I felt like I was taking care of a child.

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Mistake. This could lead to bad things.
 

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Monday her stuff is going to start leaving. Making her sleep in the guest room till she finds a place to go. Gotta say it's hard to love someone who doesn't do anything all day. When she did do stuff she did it well. But most of the time I felt like I was taking care of a child.

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Any homeless or women's shelters in your area?
 

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Monday her stuff is going to start leaving. Making her sleep in the guest room till she finds a place to go. Gotta say it's hard to love someone who doesn't do anything all day. When she did do stuff she did it well. But most of the time I felt like I was taking care of a child.

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I agree with the others. She's gotta go now and for good. I'm sure you're just trying to be a good person but women are good manipulators and will play games with your head so they can stay. The longer she's there, the longer she has to pull tricks on you. Get her out and get her out fast. Pack all her crap in her car, put her in it and point her to the end of the driveway
 

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I'm giving her a week to get out. She doesn't have a car or even drive.

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Yikes that should've been strikes 1 and 2 in the beginning. The lazy ones never change and grow up. They're freeloaders. I'd buy her a bike then and get it warmed up for some leaving lol

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Her sister is helping her with stuff tomorrow. Her sister lives close by. Her dad lives close by too but doesn't have space for her. Her sister doesn't either..that's the only family she has close by. If she's not out by the end of the week she has a friend close by too who she'll have a month with. Not my concern anymore.

Today I hung out with a buddy for a few hours and we tinkered with a br700 and his boat. I also went and got breakfast this morning with some shopping at Runnings after. Happiest I've been in a long time! I'm having dinner with my mom and dad this evening as well. Buddy also noticed that I'm happier as well.

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As others have said, get her out as quickly as possible. If she has a friend who can take her in, send her there now. Put her crap in a storage locker and pay for the first month. allowing her to stay on your property opens you up to liability if she somehow gets injured. It also gives her a chance to do something to get even.
As soon as she's gone, change the locks.
Don't put up with any bullshitt. You've given her plenty of opportunity to change and she chose not to. Softening up, feeling sorry for her and allowing her to drag this out, will only hurt you.
There's a time to be compassionate..........now isn't it.
 

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Her sister is helping her with stuff tomorrow. Her sister lives close by. Her dad lives close by too but doesn't have space for her. Her sister doesn't either..that's the only family she has close by. If she's not out by the end of the week she has a friend close by too who she'll have a month with. Not my concern anymore.

Today I hung out with a buddy for a few hours and we tinkered with a br700 and his boat. I also went and got breakfast this morning with some shopping at Runnings after. Happiest I've been in a long time! I'm having dinner with my mom and dad this evening as well. Buddy also noticed that I'm happier as well.

As others have said, get her out as quickly as possible. If she has a friend who can take her in, send her there now. Put her crap in a storage locker and pay for the first month. allowing her to stay on your property opens you up to liability if she somehow gets injured. It also gives her a chance to do something to get even.
As soon as she's gone, change the locks.
Don't put up with any bullshitt. You've given her plenty of opportunity to change and she chose not to. Softening up, feeling sorry for her and allowing her to drag this out, will only hurt you.
There's a time to be compassionate..........now isn't it.

Will, you've got a good heart !
Your kindness might get you into a snag here, I wholeheartedly agree with @USMC615 and @srb08.
We're all just hoping you can get clear of this without another scratch or hitch.
You gotta do what you gotta do, I get that.
We aren't in your shoes, although most of us have been in similar ones, yours are pretty stinky right now, but you're the one wearing them.
Be smart, be strong, and good luck bud !!!
We're here for ya, please let us know what we can do to help, other than trying to convince you to get her out NOW !!!!
 
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