Thanks again everybody! I'm a proud father of 5 kids, 2 are mine and 3 my wife brought into our relationship and I treat them the same as if they are mine. Takes a bigger man to step up and take responsibility for those dead beats that can't handle it. I had run in's with a prior boss over in North Dakota at the shop I worked at. I told him straight up, if you can't respect my family, then you have no respect for me. If you can't respect me, then I can't work for you and that I have ppl lined up who respect me and have a immediate spot for me. He actually backed off. I could tell he was bothered, towards the end I resigned there due to the stuff he kept saying about my wifes native american race. So bye bye I went. Loaded up my huge tool box and tools and hauled her home. Then had to move that and 4 car hauler loads back to wisconsin here to live closer to my family with my family.