I don't like "help" with any of my projects, unless the helper has something I just don't have like specialized knowledge or a third arm. The worst ones are those who think that, because you aren't doing something the same way they do, you are doing it wrong. My FIL is a great guy who would do anything in the world for you, but don't you dare commence hunting or fishing in a different way than he does, you'll never hear the end of it! Totally serious, he took one look at a friend's deer stand and feeder setup and for the rest of the season carried on about what an awful hunter that guy is and I shouldn't let him come out to my place.