Let's not worry about the scope of the thread. Derails make the best topics it seems. I find things like this fascinating.
So you have been able to do research and teach yourself how fell trees, and turn them into usable lumber. You evidently are highly motivated, and intelligent.
This brings us to the "nature or nurture" question. Is it our DNA, or genetic memory that determines our abilities, or is it what we are taught?
My father left us when I was 8. One of my grandfathers passed away before I was born, and the other when I was very young. My older brothers left home when I was young as well, with the exception of Glenn, who was far more intelligent than me, and reminded of that daily, if not hourly.
So, how did I learn to port chainsaws? Research. Trial and error. More research.
But I have always been interested in machines, and what makes them tick.
No one peaked my interest, it was just something that I wanted to do.
I found out when I got older that my dad was a gearhead too. So, did I inherit that gene? He never taught me anything.
Thoughts?
My father left us when I was 5
My older brother ............ a doctor
My younger brother ....... a burnout full of excuses and blame for everything that isnt good in his life
I'm an engineer
Could be DNA
Could be in the water
Nobody taught any of us how to be a man, I learned fast at 18 when I enlisted, and some of those guys I went to boot camp with didnt even learn then
Conclusions ????
Here is mine:
I think the keyboard makes it rough to get to know some people
Everyone has their opinion and experiences (or lack thereof) behind their opinions
Each and every one of us can say whatever we want, at the end of the day, each person made the decision to do or say what they chose to, and bear the consequences of those choices.
Nobody taught me how to fell trees, I went and learned
Nobody taught me how to work on bikes, buildings, cars, turbines, etc ...... I went and learned
Nobody pays my bills but me, and I had to earn every red cent I have, so now I pay the bills for 6 people, every day.
I think people can teach themselves how to learn and grow, some do well, some not so well
Being responsible is about choices, good ones and bad ones
Being smart is learning from those choices
Being mature is owning those choices