Guys, you just need to understand that everyone here isnt trying to hurt or belittle you by what they say.
It's an "old school" way of conditioning you to the ways of this world.
I realize that you guys are a different generation, and have been taught differently than most of us.
I personally like the term "snowflake", as it seems you embrace being completely different, unique, and fragile.
Sometimes thats NOT the right approach to life in general.
Sometimes you have to adapt to changing situations to survive and prosper.
Remember, all those snowflakes end up melting.
Be stronger than that.