I say keep the thick spacer, remover the stock gasket, that will take your squish from .023(-.015) to approx .008. Then I would cut the squish back in removing .012 or so to get you .020 squish. No need for a pop up at that point or any piston changes, right?
That move will keep you where you are, and the porting will not be too crazy(within .020 of where you started). You are gonna be close to 200 psi I would think, but the exhaust being high that might bleed off and be the 190 you are looking for.