My kids are sorta grown up now but of course I still care and worry about them. One son (army) was gone "somewhere" but never said. We found out he was gone by his "I'm back" post to the family Facebook group. When asked where he was, he replied "not here". All he would admit to is that he needed a passport. My other son was recently out searching the Florida keys for a missing diver (helicopter pilot). Our daughter in VA was canning something that involved a bunch of green peppers... I feel like we're pretty much out of the loop in the kid's lives these days...