for just touching up drills /tool edges 45-60 grit about I hardness, for hogging 20-40 grit g hardness , hardness of wheel varies with speed a bit also make up of wheel will affect that also . vitrified wheels are harder than resonoid wheels. A=soft- z=hard scale wise. Garden variety wheels at hardware store will likely do just fine, most of the time those are just stated as fine , medium, coarse. As the grit gets finer the wheels act harder. one can spend a lot of time researching grinding wheels , it is a science in its self. And just to add a little spice no mfg is just the same as the next . I have wheels made to my specs, even there it varies a bit from lot to lot. With the crazy way things are now days I have to plan a minimum of 12 weeks in advance of what I will need.