I guess Ill be the lone one out Joe but I wont lose any sleep if these fockers bounce me.
I built my wifes wedding ring. Just looked at what she was looking at when were out and picked my own.
I found a setting I liked and hoped she would and had them bring out several diamonds in my price range and I picked the one I liked after looking at it under a micro.
I had a good time doing it and she loves it. My best word of advise for marriage is if each of you cant put the other first in all aspects of life dont do it. No matter what. My wife comes first and I feel the same from her. It aint hard but sometimes just isnt meant to be.