All of the feelings you have about that, these dudes with the good wives have still. The rest of the guys have the girls you have had. Pretty much.
Ive had a REALLY bad one, so I know a little about what a good one is, and Bosslady is DEFINITELY a good one.
Shes been abused, cheated on, lied to, and taken advantage of.
All of those things made her stronger and smarter, and thats why I'm greatful to have her as my wife.
I was 20 years old when I got with my ex.
Heres how that went.
Find a gal thats fun, doesnt care anything about fitting in or being too prudish. Young guy thinks thats cool. Gets all the poontang he wants whenever he wants it, and she cooks him dinner etc.
Life is good.
Then he starts to figure out she doesnt really care about ANYTHING, other than staying high on different substances and cant function outside of her little circle.
Codependent as fuch.
Bad childhood etc.
Thought it was just smoking a little weed now and then, but turns out shes hooked on opioids and whatever else she can find. Then she gets on meth, and boy thats an eye-openner.
You think you can fix it, so you hang in there for WAY longer than you should have.
Turns out its just like Randy and some others have said. The person with the issue is the ONLY one who can change it, and she didnt want to.
Call me stupid or whatever you want, but I know without a shadow of a doubt what NOT to look for in a woman.
