Not true, I actually met mine right wife online, was the second time around after the first turned out to be what Dal describes as typical. Just relax, have some fun and be real to who you are. You won’t find the right one in an instant and might not even realize it the first time you meet her. T and I were dating casually, not solely and really only knew we were right for each other after a couple years of being in each others lives but not the only one in those lives too. Have guidelines, not rules; I was a guy that broke 2 of T’s rules and once she realized that rules can be dumb that our relationship really blossomed. On my side I needed to figure out if I was willing to father another kid, already had a 10yr old at the time, did I really want to start over?
First and foremost, relax and have fun, practice, practice practice. Don’t not date because you don’t see a life with her, women are not like Ford trucks. You won’t get in one the first time and know it is right for you for life.
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