I do it all by feel also, putting a little extra muster on the cylinder bolts and flywheel nut. On the cylinder, I do my pattern several times, and flex that T handle near it's max.
I also use Loctite on them, and make sure the surface of the flywheel and crank have been cleaned. Any grease or oil in there will result in a spin.
Make sure you block the piston (w/rope) and I tighten that nut just short of stripping it with a 1/2" drive ratchet.
After one leaking cylinder, and 2 flywheel spins, you learn to be very careful in these areas to not let it happen again.
Cleaning and prepping of the parts is very important, especially when not using a cylinder gasket. A light sand and clean with brake cleaner is cheap insurance against failure.